Oct 15 2009
Technology, Making your life easier, except when it doesn’t – GET OFF THE GRID!
I was riding on a night train from Bangkok to Surat Thani. I was trying to sleep. It wasn’t happening. The people in the compartment next to mine kept making noise. They kept getting louder and louder. Having a grand time.
It was really starting to irritate me. The train was bouncing back and forth.
Then the old adage came to mind: If you can’t beat them, join them.
I went over to the compartment next time mine and knocked on the door.
“It sounds like you guys are having a blast, mind if I partake in a drink?” I say
They introduced me to Sangsom and Thai Redbull. A deadly concoction of all that is bad in this world and a hell of a lot of fun. Piss and vinegar, put hair on your chest, and vomit for a weeks, all come to mind.
He have a few drinks and persist with some small talk.
Then we started having the weirdest conversations. That whole what do you do thing. They were a married couple, the wife was a Time Magazine photographer and the husband was a jade smuggling “jewel thief” with strange ties to the Junta in Burma. Not your typical backpackers.
“Don’t go to Koh Samui, that’s stupid. Just a bunch of hippie backpacker tourist wanna bees. You should cross into Burma and see if you can buy a General a Beer. You will see a country almost devoid of tourism, where you are an oddity. Not the norm. You would have a much better time. Or go scuba diving with Whale Sharks on Koh Tao instead. You can do that you know. They have a migration in January.
You know the problem with Americans is they think they are entitled to something, they always think they deserve this or that. The rest of the world doesn’t think that way, you know that right? The rest of the world works for almost nothing and are happy just to have food on the table. The rest of the world is excited by the privilege of going to school. Just the thought of education.
In Shanghai it was all bicycles and markets, looked like it did for hundreds of years and within 20 years the Chinese have built the largest cities in the world and they own us. They own us! Don’t YOU REALIZE that THEY OWN US!?? Get off the grid, kid. Get rid of your cell phone, it’s a trap. They are going to know how to find you. It’s not always going to be adjustable rate mortgages and all that shit. GET OFF THE GRID!!” says the Husband
His speech became faster and faster with more and more enthusiasm. I would find out later this was a conversation typical of Sangsom and Thai Redbull.
“I think your scaring our new friend!” Says the Wife. She starts laughing
I have the bewildered look of a deer in the headlights.
“Treat the locals with respect and you will go far” Says the Husband.
Just as he says this the Thai Train attendant comes into the car and we buy her drinks. More train attendants show up until it’s really a whole party of Thai Train attendants and the Americans traveling on a night train to who knows where.
Now I’m not saying you should take it to the extreme that the Jade Smuggler was talking about.
What I am saying is that technology can be a blessing and it can be a curse. Use it, but don’t let it use you.
Technology is a double edged sword.
Take the the Internet as an example. I love the Internet. It’s great. You can get whatever information you want, whenever you want. All the worlds tomes of knowledge are at your finger tips. At the same time it can be a huge time suck, and it might be giving people ADD. How long do you spend on your facebook profile? How often do I check CNN? I actually just figured out how to block websites I waste time on. No more CNN for me..
Yes you are not connected… but there is a kind of freedom that I can’t explain to anyone who carries a mobile phone. In a way it’s just a digital ball and chain. You are expected to answer every call, every email, every text message. Immediately. That’s the world. People want it, and they want it now. No time to waste.
That’s why disconnecting yourself from the matrix can be oh so enlightening. When I travel, I won’t check email for weeks or months at a time. It’s a amazing. Try it out on your next trip.
Even just a day of freedom from our digital world can be nice.
